Therapy dog visits at home in West Caldwell, NJ

Meeting the dog

Handlers let the dog say hello on the person's terms. Some people want the dog right next to them straight away; others like to watch from the couch for a few minutes first. Therapy dogs are trained to stay calm with new people, wheelchairs, walkers and unfamiliar sounds.

After the hello, the visit tends to settle. Petting, brushing, a trick or two, and lots of conversation. Handlers are friendly and good at keeping things easy.

For people who used to have dogs

Many West Caldwell residents raised families here with a dog in the backyard. When the last dog is gone and moving to a smaller place or health makes another dog impractical, a weekly visit can fill a little of that gap. People often bring out photos of past pets, and the handler is happy to hear all about them.

A slow walk around the block with the handler holding the leash, or the person holding it with the handler right alongside, is a favorite for those who are steady on their feet.

Visits can also be a chance to talk about the dog's own life. Handlers share stories about training, the dog's favorite toys, and the other places they visit. People often ask the same questions every week, like the dog's name and age, and handlers answer happily each time. Some families ask the handler to bring the dog to a grandchild's visit, so three generations can sit together with the dog. A visit like that tends to be talked about for days.

Practical details

Keep in mind this is not a medical service. Teams are certified for visiting, and the handler is responsible for the dog at all times. Let the handler know ahead of time about allergies, other pets, fear of dogs in the household, and any mobility limits.

If your parent lives in an apartment or a senior building, check the building's pet policy for visiting animals before booking. Handlers can usually help explain what therapy dog certification means to a building manager.

Cost and how to book

Teams set an hourly rate between $50 and $150, with 1, 1.5 or 2 hour visits. Each visit also gets a $2.50 booking fee and a 10% service fee. One hour is plenty for most people and most dogs.

Book a single visit, then "every week until I cancel" if it is a hit. No charge applies for canceling 3 or more days early. After each visit, the handler writes a short note the family can read.